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作者：  Cleopatre (小蝴蝶小披風)

我深深的相信,在每一隻蠍子,心底的最深處,
都有一道又一道的界線,一層又一層的藩籬
                                                                               
這些界線與藩籬,
並不是想與眾人有所隔閡,也不是想要自命清高,
更不是外界所認為,什麼天蠍猜忌心很重,很怕被看穿,喜歡武裝自己...等,
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
而是,
天蠍發自於內心的愛,是有等差之分的,
我們不濫情.不隨便.不博愛,更不喜歡曖昧與偽善,
我們只想給予,我們真正在乎的人,最好的一面
                                                                               
所以,縱使天蠍在公眾場合,
是個氣勢凌人的風雲人物,或是個異性眼中的萬人迷都好

儘管天蠍的人際圈再廣,三教九流.黑白兩道都有認識的,
在公眾場合裡頭,是顆耀眼的超新星也罷;
                                                                               
只要一到夜晚,或是獨處的時候,
天蠍的心底,其實非常清楚 -- 朋友,頂多就只有哪麼幾個而已
                                                                               
剩下的人際,頂多只是人情債而已,
逢場做戲.對你別有目的的人,往往都佔了絕大多數
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
而弄不清楚天蠍本性的人,
很容易自以為是的,逾越這些界線,弄巧成拙
                                                                               
也許天蠍天天會和你,親切的打招呼;
也許看見你在咳嗽時,會關心的問候幾句,拿著暖暖包給你取暖
                                                                               
但,這可不等同於,你就是我的好朋友
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
對眾人的關心,是種基本應有的禮貌,
會和你寒喧幾句,至少代表我們有緣,我還不討厭你

但這不等同於,你就可以恃寵而驕的,向天蠍要求得更多
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
縱使天蠍對你再好,他的腦袋裡,其實很清楚,
最多,就只能給你這麼多了
                                                                               
因為你在我心裡頭的層級,就只有這樣子;
更多的,就只能給予,更了解天蠍的友人
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
如此而已
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
如果此時,對方還搞不清楚,自己在天蠍心底的地位,
向天蠍要求更多的請求:
                                                                               
「喂,妳不是認識很多工學院的男生嗎? 介紹一個來認識唄!」
                                                                              
「拜託啦~ 我這次又睡過頭了,載我去家教吧...求求你吧...妳人最好了...」
                                                                               
「我電腦壞了啦,幫我找個資X系的男生來修啦~ 妳不是有認識資X系的男生嗎?」
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
天蠍,其實很不喜歡麻煩別人,
同理的,他也很不喜歡,麻煩或勉強自己的朋友
                                                                               
朋友是拿來交心的,而不是拿來像老鼠會一樣,擴散並利用的
                                                                                
                                                                                
如果此時,天蠍拒絕了上面的無理要求,
對方很可能會回答:
                                                                               
「什麼嘛...我還以為妳人緣多好,認識多少人呢! 拜託妳幫個忙,卻百般不情願!」
                                                                               
「我把妳當朋友,妳連幫我介紹個男生都做不到,真不夠意思!」

這是天蠍的大忌,非常嚴重的大忌,
足以讓他表面疏遠對方,
而暗地裡面,把對方所有的聯絡管道,都封鎖刪除掉,
從此斷絕往來
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
請不要自認為,你是天蠍那個重要的誰,
因為天蠍,絕對不會明白的,在口頭上告訴你,你對他有多麼重要
                                                                               
天蠍只會默默的,
用時間跟行動證明,誰才是自己真正的朋友
                                                                               
逾越了天蠍心底的界線,可是會連普通朋友都做不成的...
請自重吧...